Da Juana Byrd
As a psychic and a medium I, Da Juana Byrd, know that one of the questions I’m always going to get from clients and just people in general is, “How do I bring love to my life?” That is if I don’t answer them before they ask me. Generally, I do with exactly what that lover will look like and other pertinent information.
So today and I guess from now on since I’m writing this for y’all I thought I’d give you the best fashion in which to bring love, good love and not just sexual love either, really good love. With that said, let’s get on with it.
There’s might be a few things you’ll rebel against but that’s your prerogative. I can only tell you what I’ve seen work for a good loving relationship and it’s the one I used to get the man of my dreams finally. I won’t go into the boring “whys and why nots” of my life here today.
Come with me while we explore together how to bring the love of your life to you.
You’re probably going to have problems with the number one item on my list or you’re going to tell me that you do this now. Okay, I believe you but if you have a modicum of doubt, then resolve it.
Here’s the reason why you need to love yourself first. Only if you love yourself can you love someone else.
When you don’t love yourself you’re unhappy with all you are and how can someone else much less you find you attractive with your pessimistic views of self. Oh, you might get some of those people like me as lovers that think they’re supposed to help everyone and fix things but will you get the love of your life? I think not.
Lovers can only take so much negativity about the one their supposed to love especially if it comes from that very person without end. So, you see how important it is to take the time to love yourself first just for this reason alone.
Take the time to look at you and see how beautiful you really are inside and out. You’re a part of God and have been made in His image just in case you have any doubt. A spiritual person knows the beauty of All That Is.
Be confident in the traits you have such as beauty or handsomeness, intelligence, your ability and capacity to love, how you react to others and your being willing and able to give love to others. If you’re not willing to love then you’re off the market anyway. No need to read further because you’re not going to like it.
Confidence brings people to you. When you are confident in yourself your aura changes. Let me tell you what your aura is in case you don’t know. It’s your spirit. The manner in which one sees your aura is on a paranormal plane.
Scientists say it’s pheromones first but you have to get that potential lover close enough to smell you. It takes the aura inviting a lover in to get that close although pheromones do travel.
Your aura can recede into your body where it takes comfort or it can encompass the whole room and beyond for safety reasons. After all it’s only your ghost or spirit which inhabits your body.
An aura is something that is tangible. It can be felt by you and others. Law enforcement, spies and such use it to keep themselves safe. Well heck, we all do too.
An instance of aura working for you is when you’ve gone into a room with your back to the door. Your aura may be protecting you a little more than you know if you’re unsure of yourself. When someone walks through the door you turn to see them even if you haven’t heard them. That’s because they’ve entered your space, your aura alarmed you and you felt it.
Another example is a battered spouse. If they’ve had it happen once, gotten away from that person and start to look for another person to love, they will find the same kind of person again. That is until they become aware of the situation and change their own lives. They have to have the desire to change into a person who is confident. Then they’ll know they can have the best in life without allowing the battering.
Once you realize how great you are your aura will bring people worthy of you oh confident one.
After discovering what you’re capable of where love is concerned here’s the big question: Are you prepared to receive love?
If you are after this step of analyzing yourself and becoming aware of what you really want we’ll go onto the next step.
What you say, “I’ve been waiting all my life for real love to come to me and I haven’t seen it yet.”
Yeah, I know but after looking at the first surefire way above and analyzing yourself, are you sure you really wanted love then?
Are you making an attempt to find love? Do you stay at home waiting for your prince or princess charming to visit? Do you go out with friends and not want to be bothered by that nice person who saw you there and who took the time to come and talk with you? Or do you get aggravated about your new potential lover’s visit and turn away because you’re out with friends? Do some thinking here. You’re alone in more ways than one. You can do it.
Thought and energy manifest. That’s the paranormal part of your spirit working for you. It demands that you think of what you want. When you do consider and realize what you want you have to go a step further. You have to be proactive and act upon the event you want to take place. Then the results come from your thinking and acting. Thought and energy manifest. See what I mean.
From a psychic point of view, I’d like you to do a few things to get the energy flowing. Create a Pro sheet not a con anywhere in sight. We want only positive energy here.
On your Pro sheet list the characteristics you desire. Do you want pretty to look at outside or do you want pretty to look at on the interior too? List it.
Do you want someone to love you as you love them? Think about that for a minute. Will you love them with a selfish love or will you both be giving and happy? Now you’re cooking with gas.
Do you want to be able to sit on the front porch and rock enjoying life in a different manner when you’re older or now too? Don’t laugh. That was one of mine. Rocking is good. You get exercise both of the body and the mind because you’re generally conversing about your days and how to heal the world.
Don’t forget sex. What do you want because there’s nothing like being sexually different in mindset? That one act can be a problem you can’t solve. Decide what you want and can live with. Write it down in a positive fashion.
Do you want someone who has your best interest at heart? You get the drift. Now write it down.
Since you’ve become more confident you now know the universe will send you all kinds of people. Fear of selecting the wrong one can cause you enough problems. That’s why you made the list. In all of this you want to stay away from paranoia. Know in your heart, head and spirit that true love is coming and take a chance.
Job in the Bible said “That which I fear most has come,” when he spoke of losing God’s favor. So, don’t you fear it’ll come. That’s why I’m telling you to be open to love. My mother told me once that if I didn’t like the one I was with, get another. She was so right on. With that in mind you can look, date and enjoy but keep in mind that the right person for you is coming to you because you gave power to love by saying and giving emotion to the thing you want most.
Jesus said when you speak from the heart it is so. Hope you don’t think I’m being too religious because I’m not. I’m spiritual but Jesus is a person who’s visited me from early childhood and between lives. Besides Jesus wants you to love everyone too. Perhaps not in every fashion but real love is good.
Back to your list. After you’ve made the life altering words that will be your mantra, I’d like for you to read them aloud to yourself. You’re by yourself. Others don’t have to listen. As a matter of fact, you’d much rather they didn’t. The only person who matters here is you for the present moment. I want you to read and hear the words you’ve written. Do it with gusto. In that way you’re engaging the brain, speaking authoritatively too with energy and now you know where we’re going. Remember I said Thought and Energy Manifest. Well honey you got it going on.
Your aura starts looking immediately for what you requested. It puts the brain into gear and you’re receptive. Have fun looking!