If you think about it life is change. Nothing remains the same. So, you’re on to another life’s adventure in the form of finding love. Upon writing, reading and putting all of your pro list for love into action, you have to be ready for change. After all isn’t the love of your life worth it?
Be open to new ideas and people. Don’t jump at every new person coming into your life. Instead like shopping try what you want to wear on first to see if it complements you. After all this is all about you. Your new love probably made the same list you did and he or she is looking for just the right person, you.
Like shopping not everything you try on looks good on you. Sometimes the one that looks hideous on the rack is just right. Remember that. God is helping you find love.
When you make up your mind that this love change is good you’ll start to notice subtle differences in your own psyche. Change for change sake is rarely good but your psychic abilities will begin to function more acutely and provide the insight you need to decide what’s best for you in love. That change is brought on by awareness of your soul as to what and who is good for you and why.
See you’re getting the tools to intelligently promote yourself for the best in love.
What do I mean by Ante Up? You’ve gone this far now you have to give something in return by giving the two of you a chance to make it in love.
If you ever start the “But he, But she,” game you’re not in the right place. Please understand that no one including you is perfect.
Work hard on the relationship but don’t work too hard. By that I mean if you’d gone on two dates and think you need to see a counselor, pass on this lover’s union. Work means be kind and loving not giving in totally on all accounts.
Your aura will help you. Use your psychic feelings. And yes, you are psychic. I heard you flinch a while back when I mentioned it the first time. All of us are psychic we just use it differently.
You know I’m a professional psychic and medium but you use your psychic senses daily to help you in living. Society dictates that we live together in communities. Community needs certain qualities to continue being able to live together. We humans use those qualities that our soul perceives to be needs and to show us what is inconsistent with those needs so we’re able to keep living. You know when you’re going down the wrong street at the wrong time of day. Now psychic we’ll get on with the rest of the program so to speak.
Give what you want to receive in love. When you do so check for your ROI or return on investment in love.
Don’t overcompensate. When you try to make your lover happy even when you feel used, it’ll ruin a lover’s union quickly. So, give freely but not to the exclusion of yourself nor where you feel badly about what you’re doing.
Don’t look for too much too quickly in this lover’s union. If you think within two days you’re in love then you might want to check the temperature of your lover too. This may be a little quicker than is necessary to get what you want in love. Check yourself first.
Make your lover your best friend. By this I mean don’t tell him or her all your secrets right from the start. They have to earn your respect and your love. By all means though treat your lover like your best friend. How do you treat a best friend? Make sure you remember those treatments in dealing with a new love.
Don’t rush love. Love is like a new baby. It’ll learn to eat, crawl and walk at its own pace. Like a new baby, enjoy your new-found love life by searching and touching everything.
Either love is there or its not but if there is interest between the two lovers you will set your pace and play. Take the time to explore one another without prejudice.
When the time comes if you don’t feel this love be willing to move on knowing the universe has prepared the right person to come to you. You’re shopping for the right love.
You and I know that some disagreements will happen occasionally. Perhaps he left his underwear on the floor again after you found it so cute the first time when you picked it up. Love wears on.
Don’t turn on him with your pointer finger stuck out stating he left his underwear on the floor again. The only thing he may think is she wants to fight. There’s no listening when both are fighting. Both are right at the moment when neither is.
To prevent this type action, get to know each other as friends. You wouldn’t point a finger at your best friend, would you?
If you know each other as friends you’ll keep each other’s secrets.
You’ll love him like you love your dog. You’d never knowingly hurt your dog under any circumstances. Your dog gets unconditional affection and love even when you’re angry with him or her. You can tell your dog anything. You forget the puddle on the floor when you look into those big brown eyes.
See now all better.
Smile and enjoy. When you smile you feel better and your lover does too.
Have fun taking turns doing what each other likes. You’ll learn something new and so will your lover. Both of you may even come to like doing each other’s activities.
Do something just for the heck of it. Explore life together.
Question how you’d feel without this lover. Is the lover’s union more effort than it’s worth? How do you feel about your lover as a whole?
You’re getting your answers now like the psychic you are.
Now there’s only one thing left to do if you realize you do care greatly for your lover and this lover’s union.